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By Frank Flores, founder of FamiliaLista · Updated November 2026

How to get your DD-214, and why your family needs a copy now

You can request your DD-214 from the National Archives online through eVetRecs (with an ID.me account) or by mailing or faxing Standard Form 180. Depending on your branch and when you served, you may also be able to request it through milConnect. Get a copy now and tell your family where it is: they'll need it for a burial in a national cemetery and for most survivor benefits, and requesting it later means proof of death and a wait of at least 90 days before they can follow up.

How do you request a DD-214, step by step?

  1. Check what you already have. Look for a DD-214 for each period of active service. For National Guard service, look for your NGB-22.
  2. See if milConnect covers you. If you were in the Air Force after Oct. 1, 2004, the Army after Oct. 1, 2002, the Marines after Jan. 1, 1999 or the Navy after Jan. 1, 1995, you can request it from the Department of Defense through milConnect.
  3. Or request it online from the National Archives. Use eVetRecs on archives.gov. You'll need an ID.me account.
  4. Or mail or fax the SF-180. Fill out Standard Form 180, sign and date it, and mail it to the National Personnel Records Center, 1 Archives Drive, St. Louis, MO 63138, or fax it to 314-801-9195. Send one form per person.
  5. Include the details they need. Your complete name used in service, service number, Social Security number, branch, dates of service, and date and place of birth.
  6. Wait 90 days before following up. The center gets 4,000 to 5,000 requests a day and asks you not to follow up before 90 days.
  7. Tell your family where it is. Keep a copy where your family can find it, and write down where the original is.

Sources: va.gov, archives.gov

Why does your family need your DD-214?

What information should you include?

Source: archives.gov

Can your family request your DD-214 after you're gone?

Yes. Next of kin of a deceased veteran can request the records: a surviving spouse who has not remarried, a parent, a child or a sibling. They must send proof of death, such as a copy of the death certificate, a letter from the funeral home or a published obituary. Source: archives.gov

Records of veterans discharged more than 62 years ago are open to the public. Source: va.gov

What if the family needs it fast, for a funeral?

What about National Guard service and the NGB-22?

Contact the Adjutant General's office of the state you served in to find out where to send your request, then send them a signed SF-180. Source: veterans.alaska.gov

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Frequently asked questions

How long does it take to get a DD-214?

There is no fixed time. The National Archives says response times vary with each request and asks you to wait 90 days before following up.

Is it free to get a copy of my DD-214?

Most basic requests are free, depending on the discharge date. Records of people who left the service 62 or more years ago are archival and carry fees.

Can my wife request my DD-214 after I die?

Yes, if she has not remarried. A surviving spouse, parent, child or sibling can request it with proof of death, such as a death certificate, a funeral home letter or a published obituary.

Can I get my DD-214 online?

Yes. Request it through eVetRecs on archives.gov with an ID.me account, or through milConnect if your branch and service dates are covered.

Sources

Every source above was checked in November 2026. General information, not legal or financial advice. VA and Texas rules change; check the official sources above or talk to your county Veterans Service Officer or another accredited representative about your situation.

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